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On their first date, after the server set down their plates, Rich closed his eyes and said a beautiful prayer. Paul over the summer. It was touching. After a few months, Linda lost her job with a financial-services company, but Rich made it seem okay.

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She sat up for hours.

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He would FaceTime the women from UM classrooms between classes. He had hour-long phone conversations—ostensibly with his admiral, his faculty supervisor, or his daughter Sarah, three people who turned out not to exist—during which Linda could hear a voice on the other end of the line.

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Americans were meeting more strangers than ever before, and thanks to a growing economy, they had more money than previous generations.

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Of those, more than 14, were for relationship fraud, a number that has more than doubled since After weeks or months of intimate emails, texts, and phone calls, the putative boyfriend will urgently need money to replace a broken laptop or buy a plane ticket home.

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