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What should you know before your first relationship? Answer by Lauren Campbell on Quora:. Society educates us very little on how to have a healthy relationship or what a healthy relationship looks like.

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Controlling what your partner can do, who they can talk to, etc is not grounds for a healthy relationship and it is a temporary fix that won't make you feel more secure in the long-run. You can certainly discuss your feelings with your partner this makes me feel insecure but issuing demands I forbid you is different.

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